Kiran Rao, the accomplished filmmaker and screenwriter, has opened up about her divorce from Bollywood superstar Aamir Khan. In a heartfelt conversation with Filmfare, she shared insights into their separation, emphasizing the mutual respect and understanding that shaped their decision.
A Thoughtful Transition to Divorce
Kiran Rao described the process of their separation as “smooth,” explaining how the couple approached it with care and deliberation.
“We worked on our marriage really well for a long time. Even when we decided to get divorced, it was done very mindfully,” she shared. Despite their decision to part ways as a couple, Kiran emphasized that their relationship remains rooted in friendship and mutual respect.
She elaborated on how their disagreements never escalated into major conflicts. “We never fought. We would have arguments from time to time, but nothing that wouldn’t be resolved within 12 hours,” she said. Comparing their disagreements to those one might have with close family members, she noted that their bond remained intact throughout the transition.
A Bond Beyond Marriage
Even after their divorce, Kiran and Aamir have maintained a close and collaborative relationship. She spoke warmly of their connection, stating, “We don’t want to be married, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like or love each other.”
Kiran’s reflections highlight the complexity of relationships, especially those that evolve over time. She pointed out that all marriages have moments of friction and shared some relatable truths about navigating these dynamics.
“There will be things that bother you about the other person — some trigger that always gets you going and leads to fights,” Kiran said. “But there are also reasons why you married this person and things you love about them.”
The Story of Aamir and Kiran
The former couple’s story began on the sets of the 2001 cult classic Lagaan, where Aamir played the lead role and Kiran was an assistant director. Their partnership flourished both personally and professionally, leading to their marriage in 2005. Over the years, the duo collaborated on numerous projects, with Kiran making her mark as a director and producer.
Their decision to separate was announced in 2021, and both emphasized their commitment to co-parenting their son, Azad. The couple also stated their shared dedication to working together on Paani Foundation, a non-profit organization focused on water conservation in Maharashtra.
The Bigger Picture
Kiran’s candid remarks about her separation from Aamir offer a refreshing perspective on relationships and divorce in the public eye. Her narrative highlights the importance of mutual respect and understanding, even when romantic relationships come to an end.
While breakups and divorces can be fraught with tension, Kiran and Aamir’s story underscores the possibility of finding harmony and collaboration beyond the traditional confines of marriage. It’s a message that resonates with countless others navigating similar transitions in their own lives.
